tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-39327761504888755022024-03-12T23:31:11.809-05:00The Potts Family AdventureWelcome to our little piece of the virtual world.Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.comBlogger170125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-57569420710493892422011-09-07T10:33:00.000-05:002011-09-07T10:33:05.481-05:00My boys!<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">I have been on a very long vacation from blogging. Oh how I have missed it!! I don't have a whole lot of time today but I just had to do a quick update on the kiddos. Alex turned ten in May and started the 5th grade this year. I can't believe how fast my baby boy is growing up!! He loves his baby brother so much even though he won't always admit it. Our little guy Ethan is already ten months old!! Wow can you believe it?? At his 9 month check up he weighed a whopping 24lbs. 11oz (which I know for sure has gotten bigger this past month) and was 27 inches long. He is kinda short and dumpy but there ain't nothing wrong with that!! We are truly blessed at how well he is doing. When I tell people that he was 7 weeks premature they really don't believe me! He has caught up in every aspect both physically and cognitively. He is crawling like a little mad man and pulling up on everything he can reach. He loves our dogs and cat more than words can say and of course his big brother is his hero. He eats more than any baby I have ever seen and just this week started asserting his independence by only eating if he can feed himself. I am working on posting alot of baby pictures but for now here are a couple of my favorites!!</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
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This little guy was dropped at my feet by my rescue dog Chewey this past Saturday. At first I freaked out. For one I thought my dog was killing something right in front of me. When I realized that wasn't happening my mind was going in circles just trying to figure out what the heck it was!! Three days ago there was ALOT less hair and it looked like I don't know what. Of course I started screaming for Steven. He comes running out (he may have even thought I was going into labor ) and when I point to the ground he looked back at me with this "Oh great" look. He knew without a doubt that I was going to<strike> demand</strike> ask politely that we keep it. I mean how in the world could we just leave this tiny little baby outside to just die??? I immediatlely called my dad. A few years ago he had saved a baby squirrel (interestingly enough his dog at the time dropped it at his feet. What are the odds?) and I wanted to get his opinion on what he might think it was...rat or squirrel? It's really hard to tell. I have discovered that most newborn rodents look alike. I am however leaning more towards a rat for various reasons. Ugh you may say...a rat? Yep. I felt the same way 3 days ago and now I just can't get enough of the little guy. It is absolutely amazing to watch him develop even though I am exhausted from the every 2 hour feedings. Good practice for the baby!! (I will do a much needed pregnancy update soon!)<br />
So here you have it guys. Our newest member of the family Ratatouille!!<br />
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<ul><li>I still throw up on occassion but not as bad. It's usually after I eat something greasy</li>
<li>If I wait too long to eat (i'm talking even a few minutes can make a difference) I become very dizzy. </li>
<li>We are moving so I have had swollen feet already</li>
<li>Ligament pain</li>
<li>Mood swings that are out of control! Poor hubby </li>
<li>As far as food cravings - I love fruit and yogurt. I also could eat mexican food for every meal!</li>
</ul>Oh and we had an ultrasound done at 9 weeks!! I can't tell you how amazing it was to hear that little heartbeat for the first time!! We were so excited we got to hear it..neither of us were expecting to get to since it was so early. I had to lay very still and hold my breath but we heard it and were able to see it on the screen as well. I will try to update more often and post some pics soon!<br />
Have a great week!!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-9188710349179296642010-05-07T09:05:00.000-05:002010-05-07T09:05:55.417-05:00Thank you!!!!!!!!!!For all of your prayers for the <a href="http://smithscooptexas.blogspot.com/">Smith</a> family. Gavin's MRI scan came back CLEAR yesterday!!! Thank God!!!!! I can't tell you how happy this wonderful news makes me and how it really makes me realize the power of prayer. God is so good guys....like I needed to tell you that though. I hope everyone has a great weekend! <br />
By the way I really need to do a pregnancy update! I just haven't been feeling up to writing much. Morning sickness or shall we say ALL DAY sickness has kicked in full force. I will be 8 weeks this coming Saturday May 8, 2010. Can you believe it??? Only 4 more weeks to go till I i'm out of my first trimester! Wow!! Keep us in your prayers!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-7780121866965894462010-05-05T12:56:00.000-05:002010-05-05T12:56:58.482-05:00Please Pray for the Smith FamilyPlease lift the <a href="http://smithscooptexas.blogspot.com/">Smith</a> family up in prayer. Their son Gavin has been experiencing several symptoms that leads them to believe it is possible that his cancer has returned. This sweet family has been through so much the past couple of years that it just breaks my heart to even write this. He goes in to have an MRI Thursday May 6, 2010. Please pray for them as they face this head on. Feel free to post this on your own blog and/or tell as many people as you can about him and ask them to pray as well. Thank you!! Have a great Wednesday!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-40203995791078314792010-04-27T09:55:00.000-05:002010-04-27T09:55:54.709-05:00Sibling Rivalry...the dog versionWe have a new addition to our growing family....a puppy. I am a bleeding heart animal lover and when it comes to abandoned animals I just can't turn the other way. We went to my in laws on Sunday and there she was just looking all cute and puppy like. Someone had dumped her the day before and I knew that if we didn't take her home that she wouldn't make it...all puppies either wander off and get lost or get ran over out there. My in laws live in the country and it's just not puppy friendly. Good news is that I have already found her a great home when she gets a little older and bigger. We just can't keep her as much as we or should I say Alex and I want too. For one we already have three dogs and adding one more plus a baby is too much. Secondly she is going to be a pretty big dog. We just don't have the room for a big dog in our small house. I am happy to say that I am giving her to a dear friend of mine with a huge yard and we will get to see her pretty much anytime we would like!! So anyway like I said we already have three dogs. Peetie the seven-eight year old Jack Russell Chihuahua mix. Lucky who is a five year old full bred Jack Russell Terrier (our first dog) and of course Hammie the two year old full bred Dachshund who is my baby. Hammie is the most free spirited, humorous, loving, and goofy dog I have ever owned. He is definitely a momma's boy and up until this point has been the "baby" of the family. He has been around plenty of other animals. We at one point had a cat who he absolutely adored. We have dogsat our neighbors two dogs on numerous occassions and he has been fine. Oh and i'm sure if memory serves me right that over the past two years that I have brought in one or two stray animals in need of rescuing. Peetie tends to be our grump and we were worried that he would oh I don't know eat the puppy but as it turns out Peetie could care less. Nope it's not Peetie that is the cause of concern. It's Hammie who this morning actually got mad enough and snipped that the puppy. Hammie is MAD. At first everything was cool and he seemed his usual loving free spirited self. Then reality sunk in and he realized that this little thing was getting way more attention than he was and as it so happens he doesn't like that very much. Not only is he mad at the puppy he's mad at me too. You should see the dirty dog looks i'm getting. He wants nothing to do with the sweet little puppy's advances to play or snuggle. I'm hoping that this doesn't last and that in a few days Hammie will adjust. Hopefully he will realize that he hasn't been replaced and that he still has his place in our family. All of this got me to thinking about Alex. I really think that he is going to have the same reaction to his baby brother or sister minus the getting mad and snapping at the baby of course. Rite now it's all fun and exciting but when the baby actually gets here I think Alex is going to have a really hard time. He has been the only child and grandchild for 9 years. I have no idea how to prepare him for what lays ahead. I guess I need to start doing some research!! Do you guys have any suggestions?<br />
Happy Tuesday!!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-19547215558803308092010-04-21T09:50:00.000-05:002010-04-21T09:50:50.934-05:00Eating for TwoLast night I had to run to Walgreens to get a few things like trash bags and bottled water. I waited until after Alex was in bed so I could spend as much time as possible with my little guy. By the time I headed out I was starving...I knew I should have grabbed a snack before I left the house but I was in a hurry. Shopping while hungry and pregnant is NOT a good combination. Anyway just across the way from Walgreens there is a Subway. I love Subway and decided I would take a small detour and grab myself something to eat. I also decided that it was going to be my little secret. If I had called the boys at home to see what they wanted not only would it have taken forever to get MY sandwich it would have cost $20 instead of $3.80. So not only was I saving time I was saving money...or at least that was my justification. It's not like we didn't have food at home for them to eat. I was just going to starve if I didn't eat right then!! (Justification number 2). So I go into Subway and decide upon having a 6" meatball sub. Maybe not the most healthy thing in the world to eat at 9 at night but oh was it ever good! The guy who worked there was super nice. He looked at me and said with this huge smile on his face "I added a few extra meatballs (Free of charge) on there for you because you are eating for two." I must of had a weird maybe stunned look on my face because his eyes got huge. Like the oh crap she really isn't pregnant and I have just insulted a customer look. He then says "You are eating for two right?!" I couldn't help but laugh and smile the biggest smile ever!! I told him yes and thank you very much for the extra meat balls. Then our conversation went on from there discussing due dates and the how hot and miserable I was going to be this summer. He was a super nice guy! What was even cooler is that someone actually could tell I was pregnant!!! I couldn't believe it guys! When I was pregnant with Alex no one could tell until I was at least 14-16 weeks and even then my bump was small. I know that it isn't baby that is showing yet but it's still super uber cool! I just hope it's normal...I worry about that alot. Is this or that normal. Am I ok? Is the baby ok? I am sure that I am driving Steven crazy. Anyway I got so busted on my subway trip because of course I had to tell my hubby that someone actually knew I was preggo! <br />
Happy Wednesday!! It's almost the weekend!!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-11621462758390645612010-04-20T13:35:00.000-05:002010-04-20T13:35:53.652-05:005 weeks!<div style="text-align: left;">As of Saturday April 17, 2010 I am five weeks pregnant. According to all of the great online pregnancy websites this is what is happening to Baby B this week: <em>During the early part of this pregnancy at 5 weeks the central nervous system, muscles, bones and even the heart will begin to form. Early skeletal development is also possible at or around pregnancy week 5. During the early part of this pregnancy at 5 weeks the central nervous system, muscles, bones and even the heart will begin to form. Early skeletal development is also possible at or around pregnancy week 5. </em>Wow! Lots of things are happening this week. We have such a long way to go before I hit my second trimester. Trust me I am counting down the weeks!! I can't wait to hit that milestone. I am feeling pretty good for the most part. I am still extremely tired and my breast are still sore. I have grown quite a bit in both my chest and stomach area. My mom was gracious enough to take me bra shopping Sunday....let's just say I have gone up TWO cup sizes! Yikes! My pants are really tight and in my opinion I am huge for only being 5 weeks. Everyone has told me that you get big alot quicker your second pregnancy but come on! By the evening I am so tired and nauseus that all I want to do is go to bed. Another symptom that I am having that I no I did NOT have while I was pregnant with Alex is I am so thirsty all of the time. I can't seem to get enough to drink. I am drinking nothing but water and juice now and my thirst is never quenched no matter how much I drink. I hope this is normal. I am just loving all of these symptoms even though they may not be pleasant. </div>Ok so I will end with my five week tummy picture. I never thought I would have a tummy at five weeks to actually take a picture of! <br />
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</div>Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-48446203504565640212010-04-15T10:57:00.000-05:002010-04-15T10:57:29.402-05:00StressedI am trying not to stress out at the moment. I no it isn't good for me to worry and that I just need to relax BUT it's really hard. I am so worried right now about insurance. We have none. My job doesn't offer it and my husband's previous job didn't either (he was laid off in November) so we have just been paying out of pocket to go to the doctor. I guess I assumed that when and if I did get pregnant that we would have this issue figured out by now but we don't. Here's the kicker....even with my husband being unemployed we still make $200 a month too much to qualify for Sooner Care, which is our states Medicaid program. Even if I were to take out a policy today I don't think my pregnancy would be covered because of that wonderful thing called a Pre Existing Condition. How in the heck is pregnancy pre existing? I hate insurance companies. I hate them with a passion. My ex-husband suffered from Epilepsy so I have alot of experience dealing with them NOT covering stuff due to "pre-existing". It was the most frustrating thing I have had to deal with when it comes to medical stuff. Anyway I know that I have a few weeks until it is really imperitive that I go to my first prenatal visit. My husbands unemployement is up in four weeks...yep we are really going to be hurting then. Jobs are scarce around here and we are even considering a move. However when he doesn't have that money coming in anymore I will qualify I think. He maybe eligible for an extension if the Bill goes thru so i'm really unclear if we will be required to take that money. We can't just simply quit getting the unemployement rite now just so we can get Sooner Care. Ugh!!! I want the best for this baby and with my history I feel like the sooner I go to the doctor the better. So I guess i'm asking you guys to say a prayer! I know that God is listening and that He will take care of me and this baby. <br />
Ok enough about that. Whew I feel better to get that off my chest! So I decided that i'm going to start documenting this pregnancy so I can look back a year from now and remember everything. I regret not doing that while I was pregnant with Alex. It's amazing how much you forget! So I went online and did a due date calculator and according to my last menstrual cycle the baby will be due roughly around December 18, 2010. Wow a Christmas baby! I am about five weeks and I already feel pregnant. I LOVE it! I have had a few waves of nausea but for the most part it hasn't kicked in full force yet. I was so very sick with Alex and it lasted about two months. I'm really hoping that I bypass that part but if not that's ok too. I am extremely tired and let me tell you my boobs are SORE!!!! I see bra shopping in my near future as well. So there is about seven weeks until I am in my second trimester. Those seven weeks can't go by quick enough! Do you guys realize just how many pregnancy websites there are? It's kinda overwhelming! Do you have any suggestions as to which one's are better? I have no idea. Anyway here are som fun due date facts I found yesterday.<br />
<ul><li>Zodiac Sign: Sagittarius</li>
<li>Half Birthday: June 18</li>
<li>Birthstone: Turquoise</li>
<li>Birth Flower: Narcissus or Holly</li>
<li>He/she will be born in the Chinese Year of The White Metal Tiger</li>
<li>This time next year he/she will be 17 weeks old!</li>
<li>He/she will start kindergarten in 2016, be old enough to drive a car in 2026, finish high school in 2029 (I will be 52 when he/she graduates!) and graduate from college with the class of 2033 give or take a year.</li>
</ul>Hope this post makes sense. I am kinda rambling! <br />
Happy Thursday everyone!!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-66490984467329241202010-04-13T09:03:00.000-05:002010-04-13T09:03:35.707-05:00Guess What?!?!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrUi6R5AQ2OhDsStGVcvMAJ-XQITnMpd3o83ODXaz_ZsiyAIngaCRva_0z99MWMLSNZf4IR-ykB2xzR0D0yLdgwMZzHWZd4WGxBONxH7evgCG-17DF7U6d8klV9QLAlJTJmTbKXnkfQBYd/s1600/test_blog.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrUi6R5AQ2OhDsStGVcvMAJ-XQITnMpd3o83ODXaz_ZsiyAIngaCRva_0z99MWMLSNZf4IR-ykB2xzR0D0yLdgwMZzHWZd4WGxBONxH7evgCG-17DF7U6d8klV9QLAlJTJmTbKXnkfQBYd/s320/test_blog.jpg" wt="true" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Yep you are seeing right....we are going to have a BABY!!! (God willing of course) Sorry about the picture quality. I tried so many times to get a good picture but I was using my cell phone (my regular camera is having a moment!) and it just wasn't coming out very good. So I took what I could get! To say that i'm surprised is an understatement. I mean yes we have been trying for two years with no success BUT this past month was very rocky in our marriage and honestly a baby was the last thing on my mind. We were both in shock when two lines appeared. I got a pretty little digital test too that said "pregnant" but of course when I took a picture of it you couldn't even make out the word! I am still very nervous about everything because I have had miscarriages but I am trying to just relax. I no He has a plan and it's out of my control. I just want to say thank you to all of you who have been praying for us!!! He listened and answered!!! </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
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Happy Wednesday!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-74034352714971656192010-04-06T11:11:00.000-05:002010-04-06T11:11:30.827-05:00New hair!<div style="text-align: left;">So Alex has been growing out his hair since last August. At first it wasn't intentional we just hadn't made it to get a hair cut. Then after it finally started getting a little length he decided that he really liked his hair a little longer and wanted to see what it would look like even longer. So much to my dismay I agreed to let him grow out his hair until Summer 2010. He agreed and we even pinky promised. However after a few months and as his hair started to get longer and longer I started to really like it! I didn't want him to cut it and told him that IF he decided he wanted to keep it long thru the summer that I was ok with it and just left the decision up to him. Up until a few days ago he was still diggin the long hair....until it started getting HOT outside. I had to giggle when he looked at me and said "Mom, my hair is kinda hot....I think I wanna cut it." It was bitter sweet I have to admit. I had kinda grown fond of his beautiful hair. (Don't let him no I said his name and beautiful in the same sentence!) So without further delay here is the new hair!</div><br />
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</div>Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-30327922955567856772010-04-01T14:14:00.001-05:002010-04-01T14:14:23.027-05:00Happy Easter!!<strong><span style="font-size: large;">I hope everyone has a safe and happy Easter!! I will be back next week!</span></strong>Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-6058583499533572392010-03-29T11:48:00.000-05:002010-03-29T11:48:20.322-05:00Not Me Monday! I decided to plug back in for the day and participate in Not Me Monday over at Mckmama's site. Head on over there to participate in the fun!! <br />
So here is what I haven't been up to this past week...<br />
<ul><li>I did not wear my shirt backwards ALL day long only to realize when I saw a few people looking at me weird</li>
<li>I did not oversleep one day last week. I didn't wake up at 8:00 a.m. when I have to be to work at 8:30 am.</li>
<li>I most certainly did not fall over in my chair at work while I was stretching...that would be very embarassing.</li>
</ul>What have you guys not done this week?!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-62455571693084873872010-03-26T13:10:00.000-05:002010-03-26T13:10:57.116-05:00UnpluggedWell just when I thought things couldn't get any worse they have. Unfortunately it's not something that I feel is appropriate to blog about at least right now anyway. So i'm going to take a few days off from posting (guess I will extend my challenge just a few more days into April again!). I just need a break from everything at the moment. I'm so tired and confused. Please just send some prayers my way!! I know that God is holding my hand rite now and that I need to put Him first which I don't do enough. I am very guilty at "forgetting" to do that....I hope i'm not the only one! <br />
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I hope you all have a great weekend!!!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-14884529782752685172010-03-25T13:48:00.000-05:002010-03-25T13:48:37.773-05:00TrustHello my name is Andrea and I have a <strong><span style="font-size: large;">severe</span></strong> problem trusting men. Whew I feel so much better now that I said that outloud. May seem insignificant to most people but to me it's a HUGE problem. I am the type of person who doesn't trust anyone from the get go. You have to earn your trust with me and once it's broken it's extremely hard to fix. I spent years in counseling when I was in my late teens and early twenties trying to figure out why I am the way I am and how to deal with my issues. Did it help? Maybe a little but my issues like to rear their ugly heads especially when i'm under stress. I first talked about the abuse I suffered at the hands of my mom when I was a child <a href="http://pottsfamilyadventure.blogspot.com/2009/10/child-hood-abuse.html">here</a> and I still do plan to talk more about it in hopes of helping others. Like I said before if what I disclose helps even just one person then I will be so happy! There are alot of things that happen in my life and my marriage that I don't write about because some things are just meant to be private. However I talked to my hubby last night and asked if it was ok with him if I told a little of his "story" and he liked the idea. You see it's this amazing phenonmenon that people who were abused as children unknowingly seek out others that have had the same or similiar experiences. I don't really understand why this happens but a counselor once told me that nine times out of ten that almost all of your friends will have had a similiar experience as you did growing up. She also said that you may not even realize it and may never realize it because it's not something most people like to talk about or disclose. It's almost like a secret "club" so to speak. So about a year ago when my husband broke down and started having repressed memories surface I wasn't the least bit surprised. Well let me rephrase that...I was shocked at what had happened to him but not shocked that I had married someone who had been abused. My husband has a long journey to getting better but as he put it "at least i'm with someone who gets me." What I have tried to explain to him is that you have to deal with what happened to you head on and not sweep it under the carpet. Everyone is different in how they deal with things but by not dealing your just delaying the healing process. Are we ever really healed? I'm really not sure. I want to think I am healed but I know i'm not but I am better. So back to the trust thing...I kind of got sidetracked here didn't I? I will always have trust issues and it can be crippling at times. For example when my husband tells me "yes dear I watered the plants" my first thought is no you didn't your lying. (This is just an example by the way....I don't think I have ever doubted him on simple everyday things.) It doesn't help matters that my first husband was a <strike>piece of shit.</strike>lying cheater who destroyed my self esteem and trust completely. Lets just say he makes Tiger Woods look good. I allowed myself to be emotionally abused by him for six years. I allowed him to manipulate me and knock me to the very bottom of the Earth. So now Steven gets the aftershocks which isn't fair. From the very start of our relationship I have not trusted him at all when it came to other women. What was so crazy is he had done absolutely nothing to make me doubt his faithfulness. I had just convinced myself that he was talking to and seeing other women. So I would snoop. I would find myself grabbing his phone while he was in the shower and looking at all of his incoming/outgoing calls and text messages. At the time he worked as a contractor for Dish Network so he made alot of calls to customers but in my mind they weren't customers but other women. Crazy huh? I think I even called a few of the numbers just to see who it actually was he was talking to!! What did I find out? Customers or his male friends NOT other women. This obsession got worse over time. I not only was snooping thru his phone I would snoop thru his email as well. One evening after we had been dating for about 8-10 months I broke down and admitted to him what I had been doing. He wasn't mad at all and told me that if it made me feel better then I could snoop all I wanted because he had nothing to hide. That was just it though I didn't want to be that kind of person. Everyone deserves their own personal space and privacy. So over the years I have really had to make the effort to not do those kind of things. It's very hard but I have made huge progress!! I think I am going to do a post soon on what exactly happened to me that made me have such trust issues. It's not just one thing inparticular but a multitude of things. Right now my husband and I are trying very hard to work through everything but I am not going to sit here and type that things are great. They aren't great at all but one thing I do know is that we love each other and we "get" one another. That in itself is great!!<br />
Happy Thursday everyone!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-19991938637489916382010-03-24T16:19:00.000-05:002010-03-24T16:19:45.966-05:00Wordless Wednesday<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQE-vrCf-AaVyYojJceC5lEgsj6nq72jo9ppmfEZl13QQlIdX-vni_HwX-rjU9Xd4s1C2CRFvphOHgKEAyreTcJzCgHSm0ouCObf4NsQoV__fLADUAub_QWKJel_WhTpyK1mz_vSZxwFgA/s1600/ghost.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" nt="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQE-vrCf-AaVyYojJceC5lEgsj6nq72jo9ppmfEZl13QQlIdX-vni_HwX-rjU9Xd4s1C2CRFvphOHgKEAyreTcJzCgHSm0ouCObf4NsQoV__fLADUAub_QWKJel_WhTpyK1mz_vSZxwFgA/s400/ghost.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Can you see Alex?</div>Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-31203663492132164992010-03-23T10:08:00.000-05:002010-03-23T10:08:17.892-05:00RandomWell I have to say i'm a little disappointed. I had challenged myself to blog everyday starting March 4th - April 4th....and I have been m.i.a for the past 3 days. Not on purpose though!! My computer went on the fritz and I tried to write a post from my cell phone but for some reason that option isn't available anymore. Probably just my phone. It allows me to log in and select new post but it won't actually let me compose anything. VERY frustrating!! So I have extended my challenge to April 7th! I guess if this happens again and I miss a day or two I will just make another extension. I REALLY missed reading everyone elses blogs. I have alot of catching up to do today! whew!<br />
We had a pretty uneventful weekend. Friday it was 73 degrees and by Saturday morning it was 30 and snowing! We got about 6 inches of snow, which may not be much to those of you who live up north, but it's alot for us. Luckily it melted pretty quickly and the sun is shining. Way to pretty to be stuck inside working that's for sure! <br />
I hope everyone has a wonderful week!!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-14788213213514293972010-03-19T11:24:00.000-05:002010-03-19T11:24:14.860-05:00I would kill to be our dogs for five minutes!Seriously all my dogs do is eat, sleep, bark, crap, play and lay around being lazy. I would LOVE to be able to do that for just one day. Not have a care in the world except when I was going to get fed. I'm pretty sure our dogs don't worry per say.<br />
So two nights ago I was in our bedroom when out on the front porch I heard the most aweful crying/meowing sound coming from outside the door. I just had to open that door and see if everything was ok even though I already knew it was a stray cat that wanted us to feed it and take it inside. Ugh! I DID NOT want another animal let alone a cat. Don't get me wrong I like cats but I don't like the smell of a cat box or all of the hair they shed. However I also have a big heart and can't stand to see an animal suffering. This poor cat was starving and was obviously scared. He wanted to come inside even though there were three barking dogs ready to chase him all around the house. He didn't care! He just wanted IN!! I finally got all of the supplies we needed which included a big bag of cat food. We put a bowl of food and water on a small end table (This is so the dogs won't get it) and he was so happy!! He kept looking at us in between bites with a look of such appreciation. Then he ended up sleeping next to his bowl of unfinished food all night. Made me feel even more sorry for him that he felt he couldn't leave his food because it would "disappear" or something. So needless to say we have another animal. Woo hoo!<br />
Oh and by the way today it is so beautiful outside. A high of 73! Tomorrow the high is 32 and it's suppose to snow...gotta love Oklahoma weather. Have a great weekend!!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-9922746615809487342010-03-18T13:32:00.000-05:002010-03-18T13:32:26.945-05:00Stand offSo the past few days have been really hard. I can honestly say that this has been the hardest relationship issue I have ever had to deal with in my adult life. I have had several long term relationships and have been married before and well obviously those relationships all ended. Yes I shed tears and was sad BUT not like this. The scary thing is that my husband and I are not even ending our marriage or splitting up for good. It has just felt like it for some reason. However, last night we talked. I ran out to his parents house to actually pick up Alex (can't be away from him for that long!) and at first it was awkward. We didn't really know how to act or what to say to each other. It's like we both had to much pride or stubborness to admit that we were wrong or to say i'm sorry. There has been alot of finger pointing and blame. I don't know how many of you read <a href="http://www.mycharmingkids.net/">Mckmama's</a> blog, but yesterday she wrote a <a href="http://www.mycharmingkids.net/2010/03/love-and-war.html">post </a>about marriage that made the little light bulb in my brain come on and scream "hello? anybody in here??!!" I see so clearly now how both my husband and I have been attacking one another like we are at war. Hateful words can be like road side bombs and eventually lead to the death of a marriage if you are not careful. I am by no means an expert here but I can see now why my husband wanted to get away. In all honestly i'm kind of glad he did because I don't know if the light bulb would have come on if I hadn't of taken a step back out of the situation. So after about five minutes of us standing there in a "stand off" so to speak determined to "win" and stay mad at each other I caved. I suddenly didn't care about winning. I mean what exactly was I winning anyway? A divorce? Not exactly my idea of a great prize!! All I cared about was telling my husband that I loved him and that I was willing to listen to him and actually HEAR what he was saying. I put my "guns" away and just listened. I was amazed at what I heard!! He in turn listened to me and I saw a look of compassion and understanding in his eyes that I haven't seen in a very long time. Now don't get me wrong we are by no means out of the clear and ok. There is alot of work that needs to be done to repair the damage caused by those road side bombs. However, I have a very new outlook on things today and I feel this undescribable peace in my heart. I know that God has been listening to all of the prayers as well. Thank you so much!! <br />
I'm happy to say that not only did I bring Alex home last night I brought my husband home too! There is alot of work to be done and I know that we will probably have more ups than downs at first but we both agreed that we would rather be together thru those tough times than apart. We both realized last night that we need to end the stand off and stand together!!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-19801938286879595242010-03-17T13:33:00.000-05:002010-03-17T13:33:13.177-05:00Wordless Wednesday!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><strong>Weird purses I ran across while browsing the internet!</strong></div><div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div><div align="left" class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
<img border="0" height="317" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUSc63UsDc6xvGXsNr34mfhc5lP8SEG51E_3g0az4nNysft_HT26o4PsywdV5IMi-xEVJqK1JXvRA-XT2N-6yHmgsZljNBBamujSjB5Ex2RrjyWzm4jabdw1u4BVY2qVu3SGjoequdcxmi/s320/keyboard+purse.jpg" vt="true" width="320" /></div><div align="left" class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;">Lovely Keyboard purse</div><div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtqcIp3gLFfJcR-wo456MWIHVmQkLs734lleQ74sBYmxCJam5fO4UB4L2Xjsy0t1rDiQj993HFYQa-87sXPalJWHQ_zoLKtrugeDIM-Xdnhyphenhyphende56aCDdts8atBiSQ4ew5HT4b8qgdv1OBT/s1600-h/gun+purse.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtqcIp3gLFfJcR-wo456MWIHVmQkLs734lleQ74sBYmxCJam5fO4UB4L2Xjsy0t1rDiQj993HFYQa-87sXPalJWHQ_zoLKtrugeDIM-Xdnhyphenhyphende56aCDdts8atBiSQ4ew5HT4b8qgdv1OBT/s320/gun+purse.jpg" vt="true" /></a></div><div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Hmmmm...I dont know whether to laugh or be scared.</div><div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg93cnwdQKwJp_BnegIO2OhKGqwbweqTdD51Kefxy5UV-1Eh4PRN-3lXY4vT7t0WNcj4yHC3dlg36TsfrfWrqO0O8-UT7SBTFeSTTSotuqrs9osFN936oVModWHG405FQEtmxNe5IsCQPp3/s1600-h/frog+purse.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg93cnwdQKwJp_BnegIO2OhKGqwbweqTdD51Kefxy5UV-1Eh4PRN-3lXY4vT7t0WNcj4yHC3dlg36TsfrfWrqO0O8-UT7SBTFeSTTSotuqrs9osFN936oVModWHG405FQEtmxNe5IsCQPp3/s320/frog+purse.jpg" vt="true" /></a></div><div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">I actually like frogs but this one looks kinda mean!</div><div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Happy Wordless Wednesday!!!</div>Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-41225438458773243572010-03-16T10:48:00.000-05:002010-03-16T10:48:30.260-05:00Heavy heartI write with a heavy heart today. My husband and Alex are gone for a few days for spring break and i'm missing them so much. If things were ok between my husband and I then I would be ok with him going off, but not right now. Rite now I feel he needs to be home, but he doesn't want to be. We are not splitting up (or at least if we are i'm not aware of it). I think the exact words out of his mouth is "I think it would be good for us to have a few days apart." Maybe it would but that's not what I want. I don't like coming home to an empty house. Yes, I am very excited for Alex because this is spring break and I want him to have fun. They went out to my husbands parents house which is way out in the country. There are tons of fun things to do and the weather is supposed to be perfect this week. So in that aspect i'm thrilled! Like I told my husband if we were a perfectly happy couple then you going off for a few days wouldn't bother me because I would be secure in our relationship. I would also know that a part of my husband WASN'T wanting to be away from ME. Maybe a few days apart will help us I just don't know. Do you guys think four or five days apart will help?Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3932776150488875502.post-12346229019221081512010-03-15T14:23:00.000-05:002010-03-15T14:23:16.715-05:00I'm tired!Wow it was a long and eventful weekend! The weather was semi nice so we decided to head out to the country and have a little fun. Lots of fishing, hiking and adventures! Alex had such a great time. I took a few pictures but i'm not quite ready for that post. Like I said i'm tired and it is Monday! I am not a big fan of Mondays but who is?? Well I hope everyone has a great week!Ordinary Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16064685205264344324noreply@blogger.com0